A young man in his early 30's who resided at the Elliot Lake men's shelter Larry's Place on Mississauga Street took his own life Friday night.
In light of the tragic event, Melody Rose, who is the Executive Director of the facility and for Maplegate shelter, as well, issued a call for compassion.
She told ElliotLakeToday that staff and other residents at Larry's Place were forced to vacate to the garage on the property while East Algoma OPP personnel conducted their investigation inside the home.
She said, "Police would not let us back inside the house for several hours while they processed the scene."
"You know this is what we do. It isn't perfect but we have helped a lot of people. We are still working towards getting more funding. We are still doing those pieces and, in the meantime, we're still going to support people.
"We actually got back in last night and cleaned everything up so that they (clients) could get back in.
Rose continued, "Last night, a young man took his own life because he felt he had no value left. He was supported by two staff, three times during an emotional crisis in the last week. He was also supported by crisis intervention from the Counselling Centre of East Algoma this week. He still chose to leave us.
"The pandemic has put a horrific strain on the support systems and the people who need those support systems. Christmas is coming, and it is an incredibly difficult time of year for people who do not have social connections. This is especially true if you live alone or live in a homeless shelter or a shelter that provides safety from violence.
"Social isolation devastates mental health.
"Let’s help people feel valued and supported, no matter who they are, if they use substances or not, if they need help. It is never about the substance use, it is about the horrific traumas they have experienced in their life. Take the time to get to know people around you who are suffering. Mental health really needs attention and support during a pandemic and holiday season.
"Reach out and make a difference. A community is only as good as the support it provides to its vulnerable citizens.
"Larry’s Place has had its challenges since it opened, but continues to provide support, a bed, a roof and food for those who need it.
"Larry’s Place has provided over 100 men support and a bed since it opened. It has been supported by gracious and kind community members who provide food and monetary sustenance to keep this care in place.
"Without it, we would have no support for men who are struggling. Everyone has a point in their life where they must reach out for help of some kind. Can’t we make that easier for men?
"Can’t we support them, not slam them? If you see people in our houses or garages socially connecting, celebrate that! They are reducing their social isolation. This should not be a privilege, for only those who are not struggling.
"If everyone was able to connect socially with others, we would have a much healthier community. Thankfully, 99 percent of our community is kind and compassionate and understands this.
Rose concluded, "Maplegate appreciates your continued support. We will continue to provide support services to those who need it. That is what we have done since 1982, make a difference. Reach out this season and make a difference. Ask those who seem isolated in our community, for a coffee. Make a connection-make a difference."